And why your best pose might already be in you.
I keep seeing ads and social posts promoting the Ultimate Posing Guide—as if there’s some perfect list of positions that work for everyone. But here’s the truth I’ve learned over the years: there’s no such thing.
Sure, I have a few base poses that tend to work for most people, but trying to make someone copy a pose they physically can’t do—or that just doesn’t feel natural—never works. You can see it in the photo. And worse, you can feel it.
Authenticity Over Imitation
What actually works is watching people. I pay attention to how someone naturally stands, how they move, how they interact. I take cues from that and build from there. That approach leads to images that feel real, not staged. It works across the board—whether we’re shooting fashion or portraits or branding.
Hands Matter More Than You Think
One thing I talk about often is what to do with your hands. They matter—a lot. Your hands need to have intent. They shouldn’t be doing something random, and they shouldn’t be in conflict with your facial expression.
I’ve seen plenty of technically strong portraits where the hands feel stiff or disconnected. The subject looks powerful in the face, but the hands are saying something else. People might not notice it consciously, but they feel it. And that disconnection can throw off the entire image.
That said, there are times when I’ll intentionally create tension by having the hands and face tell different stories—but that’s a deliberate creative decision, not a default.
Posing Is a Conversation, Not a Command
One of the most valuable shifts in my approach over the years has been treating posing like a dialogue. When I work with someone, we often spend the first 20–30 minutes just talking about how they move, how they want to come across, and what feels comfortable.
I might shoot a few frames during that time—not to create finished images, but to illustrate what we’re talking about. Once we get aligned, the rest of the shoot flows naturally. It’s smoother, more comfortable, and ultimately, more authentic.
Most people don’t know their angles—and why would they? It’s my job to help discover what works, together.
Want to see this in action?
I’ll be sharing a few real-world examples and behind-the-scenes clips soon—because good posing isn’t about hitting the mark, it’s about finding the moment.
